How does one succeed in life?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

What is your interpretation of the movie Rocky? What makes it a good film in your opinion?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

What I need from you?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Hello, I have a question about astral projection. I started to get interested in this a little while after my mum passed in april. I thought I may be able to see her and speak with her if I managed to achieve astral projection. Since this interest, every time i sleep on my back I go into sleep paralysis. However, I cant progress into astral projection because it is very scary for me as I feel like I'm suffocating when this happens. I panic and force myself to wake up. This only ever happened about once a year before this. It sometimes lasts a long time. This has happened about 3 times per week since my mum died, as mentioned on a previous post. I no longer try to go into it anymore(due to the suffocating feeling), but it still happens. I read that sleep paralysis is the pathway to astral projection. Why has this started to happen so frequently since simply taking an interest in it? Is this connected to the afterlife? I am concerned about it as I now cannot seem to stop this happening. Could it be my mum trying to communicate? Im asking due to more knowledge around this in this group.

Ask yourself:

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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Do not set goals—set systems.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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Does not procrastinate.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

What is Quora? Are there any tips?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Is BPD real or just an excuse?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

That's it for today.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Why do some people enjoy being dominated?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Procrastinates a lot.

Why can't I lose weight?

Making more friends is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?